tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8198288777577434427.post1730070626718462271..comments2024-03-29T05:57:44.408+08:00Comments on ً: 10 Reasons Why We Should Allow Children To FailAgnes Dela Cruzhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03541530590623169473noreply@blogger.comBlogger29125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8198288777577434427.post-58871196544640408082021-06-13T22:11:08.026+08:002021-06-13T22:11:08.026+08:00I do agree that we should allow children to fail b...I do agree that we should allow children to fail because only then will they appreciate the value of hard work in order to succeed. It will also make them strong and allow them to realize that the world has its imperfections and that's fine.Ivan Josehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12309587335728605421noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8198288777577434427.post-45691324389855173502021-06-13T20:59:58.064+08:002021-06-13T20:59:58.064+08:00I absolutely agree with this. As much as I want to...I absolutely agree with this. As much as I want to help my stepdaughter... I have to hold myself back because she needs to learn. Our Redonkulous Lifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07215958292562275594noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8198288777577434427.post-9445895791741152892021-06-13T13:44:15.575+08:002021-06-13T13:44:15.575+08:00If children always win they would never know how b...If children always win they would never know how bounce back. It's hard when you raise perfect children, because in the real world, there are all kinds of rejections. It is important for a child to understand the two sides, so they can prepare their heart for both. Crickette, The Things I Have to Sayhttps://thingsihavetosay.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8198288777577434427.post-58317730354276477212021-06-13T07:48:43.494+08:002021-06-13T07:48:43.494+08:00Love this sharing & gain insights here to bett...Love this sharing & gain insights here to better guide my little niece, not really bad things after all to let the kids failing & learn :D cheers, siennylovesdrawingsiennylovesdrawinghttp://siennylovesdrawing.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8198288777577434427.post-9966100547101764932021-06-13T03:10:31.915+08:002021-06-13T03:10:31.915+08:00We have used this philosophy as well. It does work...We have used this philosophy as well. It does work. Our son has had his ups and downs (and still does) nut he a confident and competent young man. Not saying that we didn't get frustrated with the failures but I think we managed to keep things in check. Great post!Dominique B.https://www.blogger.com/profile/04668445329536741455noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8198288777577434427.post-35544261672404581202021-06-12T15:55:08.502+08:002021-06-12T15:55:08.502+08:00This is a really important topic. We learn so so m...This is a really important topic. We learn so so much from this as adults and children. Great post!amalateessidehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12236767456385628009noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8198288777577434427.post-52414084393260527082021-06-12T07:52:22.121+08:002021-06-12T07:52:22.121+08:00I am a former kindergarten teacher and it was diff...I am a former kindergarten teacher and it was difficult to see parents want their children perfect and not fail at anything. It's not possible. A child me be great academically but fail at social skills or behavior. Failure is a gift. It gives us the ability to realize our natural skills and talents God has given us and focus on them. We can not be great at everything. Candle Locketthttp://www.mylifeinrealestate.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8198288777577434427.post-34124469155082278202020-06-17T23:05:40.248+08:002020-06-17T23:05:40.248+08:00Interesting approach that actually works. Children...Interesting approach that actually works. Children gain confidence and feel more independent by failing. We just need to be there to support them when they feel bad about it and to lift them up and encourage them to give another try. Nataliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07394870869837213411noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8198288777577434427.post-6278574491499302022020-06-15T16:26:58.489+08:002020-06-15T16:26:58.489+08:00It's an interesting way to see a child's m...It's an interesting way to see a child's mistake. I should be more tolerant with my children.Gust si Aromahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09809505721300016561noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8198288777577434427.post-1336563696980350662020-06-15T12:24:28.329+08:002020-06-15T12:24:28.329+08:00I couldn't agree more with you. Failures are t...I couldn't agree more with you. Failures are the pillars for success. Every failure teaches us a lesson in life!Anahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10141250407581536386noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8198288777577434427.post-11633813389183690312020-06-15T01:05:05.215+08:002020-06-15T01:05:05.215+08:00Yes we need to teach them about failures too, as l...Yes we need to teach them about failures too, as life is not that about success .Swathihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17292753459968878119noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8198288777577434427.post-74204520994611162132020-06-14T08:48:10.229+08:002020-06-14T08:48:10.229+08:00I believe failure is an important part of how we a...I believe failure is an important part of how we all learn. I don't protect my daughter from failure, but I don't make a big deal about it either. I love watching her experiment in the kitchen. I don't tell her what she's doing isn't going to work, it's better if she has the confidence to try, fail, and then try a different approach.Lizzie Lauhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06525722634652021526noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8198288777577434427.post-71499407349663575232020-06-14T04:23:55.928+08:002020-06-14T04:23:55.928+08:00It can be tough to let kids fail, but if they have...It can be tough to let kids fail, but if they have small failures when they are young, perhaps they will grow from them and avoid big mistakes when they are older. I also think that experiencing failure may help kids be more empathetic.Bethnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8198288777577434427.post-80834662252390649752020-06-14T02:33:28.430+08:002020-06-14T02:33:28.430+08:00This is so important but so hard. I hurt with my c...This is so important but so hard. I hurt with my children struggle but I know it’s crucial to their growth.StarTracihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02119043204191845721noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8198288777577434427.post-28582836798020600802020-06-14T00:12:18.378+08:002020-06-14T00:12:18.378+08:00This is so true. Me and my hubby always do our bes...This is so true. Me and my hubby always do our best to allow our children to decide on their own and help them manage the consequences. solrazo.comhttp://www.solrazo.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8198288777577434427.post-66855884291693300232020-06-13T21:04:01.818+08:002020-06-13T21:04:01.818+08:00Kids are not perfect. And I believe failure is par...Kids are not perfect. And I believe failure is part of success. So I just encourage my son and give him my 100% support. -LYNNDEEUnknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15250747988862184644noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8198288777577434427.post-37946636123952134012020-06-13T09:29:50.523+08:002020-06-13T09:29:50.523+08:00I agree! Sometimes you need to learn from your own...I agree! Sometimes you need to learn from your own mistakes. I help my children back up when they fall! Kristen Vhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03360650211226249097noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8198288777577434427.post-80262585184859866152020-06-13T01:13:15.713+08:002020-06-13T01:13:15.713+08:00This definitely gave me a lot it think about. I l...This definitely gave me a lot it think about. I love watching them learn things on their own. It's so rewarding!Diffusing the Tensionhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14835695119258726012noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8198288777577434427.post-7252371518463766172020-06-12T22:31:11.299+08:002020-06-12T22:31:11.299+08:00I think this was so interesting because everyone h...I think this was so interesting because everyone has to deal with failure at one time or another. It is good for children to experience this so they know it can be handled.melissa chapmanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15946083986765639927noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8198288777577434427.post-10344757247926972182020-06-12T21:11:08.928+08:002020-06-12T21:11:08.928+08:00I say this all the time. It doesn't really hel...I say this all the time. It doesn't really help your kids grow and problem solve when you're always solving their problems.Heather Dhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07958163850667891724noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8198288777577434427.post-85921456573892669002019-08-04T07:03:59.507+08:002019-08-04T07:03:59.507+08:00It’s true!!! We really do learn so much when we fa...It’s true!!! We really do learn so much when we fail. It’s hard to watch our little ones fail, but it will be worth it when we see them do something epic due to the lessons they learned!CourtneyLynnehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02363161093470502947noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8198288777577434427.post-23102524038170705982019-08-03T22:18:55.998+08:002019-08-03T22:18:55.998+08:00i do believe that kids need to learn on their own ...i do believe that kids need to learn on their own mistakes - it is so hard to watch it tho x kind regards Pati Robins from @style-squeeze blog Colin & Patihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11983174876161872174noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8198288777577434427.post-5349492115428307712019-08-03T14:45:06.353+08:002019-08-03T14:45:06.353+08:00As a parent, I find allowing my kids to fail can b...As a parent, I find allowing my kids to fail can be the hardest thing for me to do, but reading your post I agree and under why this is so important on their self development. Protecting them is not the answer.Yeah Lifestylehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06367361389233184054noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8198288777577434427.post-22591595463343218582019-08-03T05:41:12.732+08:002019-08-03T05:41:12.732+08:00Absolutely! I had to work on my own beliefs becaus...Absolutely! I had to work on my own beliefs because I felt since I was a kid that I wasn’t good enough or that mistakes and failures were bad. Thank you for sharing this with us. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8198288777577434427.post-61770562099751472192019-08-02T11:37:24.737+08:002019-08-02T11:37:24.737+08:00I had to stand back and do this recently. I think ...I had to stand back and do this recently. I think it's harder for us than the kids, lol, but totally we have to do it sometimes. That's how lessons are learned.mail4roseyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17850985344834209198noreply@blogger.com